Sorry I haven't posted here for a while. Had a lot on my plate, and had some ruffles to smooth out. And now that it's smoothed out, I feel much better, and so I'm back now!

It’s pretty sad… I’m one of the only ones in work today…. which is not a bad thing. I almost could not find parking this morning, until I had to force myself to parallel park.

I was really upset at the hubby yesterday, because yesterday afternoon, he went out to was the car with his friends, and then he went to go play for a couple of hours. About almost to 9pm, he calls me and said that he wanted to go to his “girl” friend’s house because they wanted to put on my other guy friend’s rims. I was pretty mad because changing rims doesn’t take just 20 minutes… it can take up to even 4 hours! And that’s exactly what happened. He came home about almost midnight, and I was in bed already and because I was fuming, I pretended that I was sleeping. Is it wrong of me to react that way? I mean, I have compromised this far, that you know, he goes out for a couple of hours, I don’t have to be there. But when I have asked him to be home at a certain time because you know, compromising is like that, and he couldn’t even make it. It makes me feel that sometimes, he wants to rather go all out and forget about what I asked of him, or else he would just go back into the mindset that I’m trying to control him, or limit him of what he can do. I don’t know how to have him see… that it’s a “two way street now. If you’re not gonna stop for me, eventually I won’t stop for you.” Should I be a bit more opened with this here?